I remember the first time I tried to play tennis. It was awful. I had no experience at all with the racket, and I wasn’t able to hit the ball and make it go where I wanted. I couldn’t volly and what made it worse was that I knew my lack of skill was also keeping my partner from having any fun.
But that is the way a lot of things work.
In the beginning, they’re no fun, because you suck at it.
So tennis is one of those things that you have to work at for quite a while before it gets to be fun. Surfing is the same way.
Basically anything that requires skill is like that. You have to work at it until you get enough skill to have some fun.
That’s where motivation and desire come into the picture. Because if you don’t have the motivation and desire to work through the pain of being bad at something, you’ll never get the skills to be good at it.
For me it isn’t just that I’m not having fun in the beginning, it’s the shame I feel for being clueless. I’m ashamed of being a tool. Sometimes that shame is a motivator to keep trying and sometimes it is a motivator to walk away from whatever it is that’s not working.
But I’ve been keeping at this marketing thing and I’m finally at the point where it is just now starting to be fun. Not because I am making a ton of money, but because I’m starting to no longer feel like a tool.
So here’s a great new year of fun and motivation!
In the end, it’s all very Tony Robbins. The only thing keeping you from achieving anything you want is… you. It’s easy to understand that. It’s hard to do something about it.
Anyway……
I did another site today. I basically got it going in half a day. So the goal now is two new sites a week, working evenings and weekends. If I can keep that pace, then by this time next year I should have one hundred sites and I can only imagine how much that will have taught me.
Onward and upward!
Richard Internet Marketing, Random Thoughts